Integrated – Embodied – Initiated – Whole!
So let’s start with the obvious, Yes I’m in a woman’s body. AND I have a very strong, healthy, and integrated dark and light masculine. My inner union is solid and I have been working with men through Tantra and sexuality for a decade. I know I have gifts and insights that can support the healthy masculine to mature and shine, whether it’s in a woman’s or a man’s body. I am offering practical tools that can serve as a bridge to go deeper into your masculine, and a transmission from my own masculine as well as my feminine in support of your wholeness.
I work with men on healing wounds of the body, emotions, sexuality, psyche and soul, and support them to open to their full potential.
Some specific themes include:
The Dark and Light Masculine
An exploration of the dark and light masculine energies within
This is an exploration of the dark and light masculine energies within, and their shadow, bringing the dark and light energies to a healthy balance. This journey heals wounds around masculinity, which then supports you to connect to and increase the range of how the masculine uniquely expresses itself through you. By dropping the masks you wear based on patterns of pleasing, rebelling, or trying to live up to expectations of what a man should be, you can be seen for who you really are, broaden your comfort level in expressing your masculinity, and tap into the essence of the power your particular masculine carries.
The Key Masculine Archetypes
Discover how these timeless powerful energies express themselves through you!
Archetypes serve as a bridge between our individual expression and The One. They represent energies which exist in the collective. They are timeless and essential to our evolution. All men are born with the four key archetypal energies: The Lover, The Warrior, The Magician, The King. To feel complete, a man can develop healthy aspects of all four archetypes that honours his Body, Heart and Soul. This is an invitation to you men, to cultivate and embody each of these four key archetypes as they manifest through you, resulting in a fuller expression of who you are as a man, as a human being, and as a soul, aligned with your vision and purpose.
The Inner Union
Meeting and discovering your feminine is a key
to feeling more empowered and fulfilled within as a man.
This process will support you to stop projecting out your needs/ gaps/ desires to external women for them to fulfill, as well as the fears and wounds that result in challenges in relating with women AND men. Also, when you connect to your own feminine as a man you can connect to the feminine in women easier, you can drop into true bonding and intimacy with other men, you can access your capacity to manifest more deeply, and you can increase your pleasure and sensitivity, which also makes ejaculation choice easier to manage… just to name a few benefits. Yet there are so many! Ultimately, your masculine and feminine are meant to support each other, and when they do you have a sense of completeness, wholeness. While most men fear that by connecting to their feminine they will become less masculine, the opposite is actually true. What gifts does your feminine have to offer you and your life? Come and find out!
In this journey we address practical aspects of sexuality and its expression.
Topics include: understanding the sympathetic and para-sympathetic nervous systems and how they influence your sexuality; de-armoring your own 1st Chakra; mastering ejaculatory choice; how to express your true sexual energy without shame or guilt while still respecting your partner; cultivating your own sexual energy; how to enjoy full-body orgasms; using techniques/ recipes versus how to stay true to the moment, yourself and your partner; true desire versus expectations that as a man you should always want/ be available for sex; healthy and unhealthy expressions of sex and power; sexuality and different types of relationships. The capacity to live a conscious, self loving, authentic sexuality is a key to freedom and power. Claim it, it’s your birthright!
My masculine wishes to walk with my brothers, side by side, as we celebrate each other. My feminine wishes to be surrounded by Kings, men who fully own their power, whatever that may look like and however that may shine. All of me wants to support that to happen sooner rather than later!
Brothers! No you don’t have to be something in particular, fit into a specific mold. I’m so tired of men being shamed (by women and men) for being “too much” or “not enough”. I’m tired of seeing so many offerings, by men and women alike, aimed to “fix” you by targeting your wounds and your ego with the promise to make you a better lover by teaching you tricks and techniques on how to please a woman. Your cock is not a circus monkey. Not anymore than my pussy is. We are not here to please each other in the desperate hope to be loved, to be accepted, to be good enough, to be important. We are all here to remember ourselves, who we really are, why we are here (our purpose in this life), and to become whole. Whatever your authentic self may look like, let it shine! That’s what you came to this world for afterall! Remember yourself and live your full potential!
A healthy, embodied, activated and integrated man is a gift to humanity. Join these offerings and support yourself and other men to shine and express their full potential! Holding yourself back, playing it small, doesn’t serve anyone, not you, not your loved ones, not other men or women, not humanity!
A brief sharing about my journey with the masculine:
I worked fiercely for a decade on healing the masculine imprint I carried from men in this life, starting with my father not wanting children and leaving our family home when I was 1 years old, to sexual abuse, rape and other traumatic experiences. I also worked with what I carried ancestrally from my mother, grandmothers, my lineage, basically loads of abuse. After many years, there came a point where it was obvious that this approach could only get me so far. A lot had been healed and I had deep, intimate relationships, but inside me I knew it was not enough. I still carried within me the imbalance of power, either putting myself above or below men, and I still projected out my needs to men feeling I was not complete or capable on my own.
So I started to work on integrating my own masculine within me, shifting it from unhealthy to healthy and letting him shine unapologetically. At first, not even my own feminine wanted anything to do with my masculine, he was quite immature. Owning the different dark and light energies of the masculine within me, letting the shadows of each be seen and healed, letting the different masculine archetypes mature within me, and unleashing this power fearlessly has been the most profound journey of my life. With this work came a sense of wholeness, no longer needing to project out my needs, fears and desires to the men in my life. With this inner equilibrium came balance in my external relationships. I wish nothing less for you! This is the place from which I share my work with you men. I look forward to continuing my journey in the company of my brothers!
In their words…
Depth, sensitivity and humility are perhaps the most important qualities a Tantra & Sexuality practitioner needs to have if they want to offer an authentic space to accelerate your transformation. Taki’h is without a doubt one of those rare practitioners. I can say with confidence that she is one of the most integrated and evolved practitioner out there in the field today… It seemed that she was in tune with what my body, soul and heart needed, almost more than I was. Taki’h is in a different league. Maybe a cosmic one With her support I moved through some of my deepest pains around sexuality, fear and tension, and understood in depth some of my past and childhood experiences which I didn’t even consider related till that point. I managed to let go into places I consider the most vulnerable for a man to enter (and be entered) and the levels of healing, trauma release and support that I felt from her were priceless. If you’re a man, and you are willing to step out of the darkness of social conditioning and into your true center and inner peace, to see and be seen for who you really are and can be, I greatly recommend working with Taki’h. Honestly, she is probably one of the best in the world. It might be the greatest gift you ever gave yourself.Boaz, Israel
It is rare to find a woman who has developed a healthy and strong masculine that fully supports her feminine. Taki’h is such a woman. I experience a deep trust that she can be relied on to have my back when I am under fire, to challenge me when I am out of my own centre, and to stand up for love in the world regardless of the consequences. These are traits I look for in a brother. Taki’h not only has these but also the grace and radiance of a developed feminine and a heart that seeks to reach out and support others in their journey.Bruce Lyon, New Zealand
What I experienced in working with Taki’h was amazing. She managed to bring out, release and channel my sexual energy with effects that are still lasting weeks afterwards, and supported me in an extremely nurturing way. She managed to combine two qualities which are very difficult to find: she was at the same time extremely professional and it was also obvious that she loves her job and what she does, she does it with love. I have already recommended her to friends and all of them were incredibly impressed with her work as well, the feedback has been amazing and unsurprisingly positive, and I would recommend her to anyone in need of healing.Joao, Portugal
Taki'h is a woman of deep clarity, tenderness, wisdom, love and power. Her soul carries the quality of something ancient, timeless and intimately part of our collective human journey and the earth. She has an extraordinary capacity to slice through people's illusions and masks and to do it with a profound depth of love. And she does all this with presence, as well as a wonderful sense of playfulness and ease. She's a woman whose dedication to truth, awakening, embodiment, integrity and the full measure of what love really calls us to, I trust on a core level. I highly recommend working with her if you have the opportunity.Jon Darrall-Rew, UKEuropean Director of the Global Purpose Movement
I had the opportunity to work and co-facilitate with Taki’h for a few years and it was always an amazing experience, each time it was an inspiration to see her passion. She is a true seeker and is fully dedicated to growth and truth. For many years she has been an important mirror on my path of transformation. Her guidance and wisdom comes from a deep space of love, awareness, compassion and understanding. She is an excellent therapist, supporting people to come into their true power. To work with Taki’h means to make a commitment to yourself, and to honestly look and embrace both your light and your shadows. I highly recommend her work, it is really transformative and healing.Nisarga Eryk DoboszBody and Breathwork Facilitator, Co-Founder of Integral Body Institute
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